Is Your College Crush Getting You Crazy!!!!! C'mon Approach Her........

There are many ways to reveal a crush on a fellow college student. With smart strategy, you should be able to make the crush mutual. Here are some methods of winning your objective:

 
1. Plan frequent “accidental” encounters with that special person. Show up in the lunch room and ask if it would be OK if you sit in the next chair. Also, appear in the stands of a college athletic event and ask if the nearby seat is already taken. Maybe you'll visit the library, walk past with a stack of books and wearily put them down on the table next to that special person. Any of these ploys should start a conversation, friendly or more so.

2. If your potential crush is an early-morning jogger or biker, find out the usual route. You then start doing the same, passing by on the other way, or going the same direction, call ahead to wait up for you to join in on the exercise.

3. Use the same opportunity to meet and mingle if that special person is a member of a spa, health club or goes regularly to the campus gym. Don’t make it seem too obvious, but always a happy coincidence when you show up to join in.

4. Confess some problems about coping with difficult subjects. Even if you don’t, fake it and ask to be a study buddy. For example, “Gee, I just don’t think I can pass this upcoming math exam. Could you spend sometime with me and help me get it right?”

5. Tweet and twitter the prospective crushee frequently. Don’t be overwhelming and pushy, but periodically send some funny notes, bits of news, photos and other casual stuff. If you want to be specific, mention some on- and off-campus entertainment events you’d like to attend. Hint, hint.

6. When an upcoming event is appropriate for students to go in a group, ask the potential crush to join in on it. Mention that you and your gang of friends plan to attend a concert, play, beach party or game. Then casually offer with a “Wanna go along?”.

7. If your potential crushee has a campus or off-campus volunteer job, sign up for a one-time event, such as a fundraiser for a homeless center. If the person is active as a hospital aide, you may decide to do the same on a regular basis. In that way, you’re bound to be spending considerable time together.

8. If all else fails, take the direct approach and say what you want to say. For example, “Doggone it all! Can’t you see that I have a crush on you, and I’m doing everything possible to get better acquainted? Let’s just drop the pretense, go out on a date together, and get to know each other better!”